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Oftentimes we think that we have to put up our own resistance against a front that some other person creates against us. Being a bit combative can be thought of as a slightly attractive. But actually, there really is only one thing that breaks down walls: being gentle.
We live in a tough world. Without doubt are there major acts of true bravery, keenness, greatness and heroism that run throughout the rivers of hate - but the actuality is those acts of hate themselves truly begin to create a drain on our minds. Our past impedes us from living in the present, turns us into pessimistic beings on occasion and our built view continues our story until the moment we or somebody else comes in to help us break out of that cycle. This skepticism about life and humanity can be astonishingly hard and damn close to impossible to combat. But that really is the point.
You aren't meant to fight with or combat it.
You...are simply meant to have a soft touch.
We really need more people in this world who are powerful enough to be gentle.
To truly love without condition. To give themselves despite being ungiven to. To give the world their best, day in and day out without any expectancy of return. We need a whole lot more of those honest people in this world. As I have discovered and found through this journey, life isn't about expecting a return. The times I have felt myself unhappiest were the times when I had expectancies for those around me. Shakespeare himself said, "Expectation is the root of all heartache." He sure appeared to have it right. When we expect people to do specific things or act certain ways we are going to sometimes be deeply disappointed. Do not expect. You can only control yourself.
Never let somebody else's attitude about life determine your own.
Keep in mind that everybody is going through something or other. It's easy to be hard on people. But I know that is not why I am here. I certainly have been hard on people in the past. But now I know that my only job is to keep to my values and go through life spreading kindness and light. What other folks do is none of my business. Sure some of it "happens" to me, but that makes it even more important to stay true to what I am doing.
You can not go throughout life by avoiding having experiences and deep relationships with the people around you. You have got to put your heart on the line and learn. The sole way I ever got to this awareness is by trying again and again. Irrespective of how badly things go, you have to keep on going. Truly allow the negatives to make you more bold.
Don't waste any time fretting about things that were not built for you. Not everyone is going to love your brand. If you set a high quality standard for yourself - call yourself Hermes - not everybody will want to buy that. Don't fret about the folks that hate on your brand. Continue your journey toward building the best person you can probably be and target higher and higher. By the day let your goals get bigger. Always be competing with your potential.
Remember - be gentle with those around you. Love your heart out. Strength is shown in very many ways.
We live in a tough world. Without doubt are there major acts of true bravery, keenness, greatness and heroism that run throughout the rivers of hate - but the actuality is those acts of hate themselves truly begin to create a drain on our minds. Our past impedes us from living in the present, turns us into pessimistic beings on occasion and our built view continues our story until the moment we or somebody else comes in to help us break out of that cycle. This skepticism about life and humanity can be astonishingly hard and damn close to impossible to combat. But that really is the point.
You aren't meant to fight with or combat it.
You...are simply meant to have a soft touch.
We really need more people in this world who are powerful enough to be gentle.
To truly love without condition. To give themselves despite being ungiven to. To give the world their best, day in and day out without any expectancy of return. We need a whole lot more of those honest people in this world. As I have discovered and found through this journey, life isn't about expecting a return. The times I have felt myself unhappiest were the times when I had expectancies for those around me. Shakespeare himself said, "Expectation is the root of all heartache." He sure appeared to have it right. When we expect people to do specific things or act certain ways we are going to sometimes be deeply disappointed. Do not expect. You can only control yourself.
Never let somebody else's attitude about life determine your own.
Keep in mind that everybody is going through something or other. It's easy to be hard on people. But I know that is not why I am here. I certainly have been hard on people in the past. But now I know that my only job is to keep to my values and go through life spreading kindness and light. What other folks do is none of my business. Sure some of it "happens" to me, but that makes it even more important to stay true to what I am doing.
You can not go throughout life by avoiding having experiences and deep relationships with the people around you. You have got to put your heart on the line and learn. The sole way I ever got to this awareness is by trying again and again. Irrespective of how badly things go, you have to keep on going. Truly allow the negatives to make you more bold.
Don't waste any time fretting about things that were not built for you. Not everyone is going to love your brand. If you set a high quality standard for yourself - call yourself Hermes - not everybody will want to buy that. Don't fret about the folks that hate on your brand. Continue your journey toward building the best person you can probably be and target higher and higher. By the day let your goals get bigger. Always be competing with your potential.
Remember - be gentle with those around you. Love your heart out. Strength is shown in very many ways.
About the Author:
Evan Sanders is the author of The Words Of Encouragement, a website dedicated to bringing the best quotes, motivational content on the web, and blogs all to one place. Going through a relationship and struggling a bit? Check out these long distance relationship quotes to get your mind back to where it needs to be - loving.
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