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By Stacey Burt


Many people have been suffering from various illnesses because of one factor that is not even caused any damage or change to the body systems. Stress has the capacity to make you feel things and even your health is affected. And sometimes, it can be too powerful that it can also meddle with your relationships. And if you are married, having fights frequently because of it is never a good sign.

When couples fight, it is usually because they are having a bad day and one just got the way of the other. Fighting is something that is normal but when it is too frequent, it never is. There are several ways that this can be remedied and one effective way is undergoing meditation for couples. Through doing this together, you will come to understand each other more.

Most people who want to achieve a general state of calm turns to meditation. Many generations have witnessed the power that it has over the mind and the body. It helps you in achieving that well deserved relaxation for your brain. It does not only affect the brain but the emotions as well.

Today, this is an activity that is not only for individual doing, it can also be a form of therapy for couples. More and more relationships have been healed and strengthened because people choose to do this activity together. If you are having marital problems and is undergoing counseling for it, you might want to try meditating together.

You have to remember that this is an activity which you both must participate on. If one is not really keen on doing it, you would just end up fighting again. And the therapy will have no effect in times like these. It is essential that both of you have the heart to do this.

Negative emotions will be reduced when you are in the state of meditation. And you tend to focus on some of the most vivid details. These two elements can be really essential when you are trying to make up and fix something. If your partner feels the same way, the easier the process becomes and the lesser and lesser chance you tend to fight as well.

Both of you need to find a place where you can meditate. As a prerequisite, this must be a space that is quite and free from distractions. If you opt to do this at home, you need to turn off all the devices including your phones. You can also turn on the answering machine. Power down the computers and try to turn off everything that might provide distractions to you while you are meditating.

The best position for the meditation is to sit in a cross legged position. Your back must be against each other so both of you will feel the others presence. And you both have to concentrate in your breathing so that the thoughts will be cleared.

You will know that it is working when you start thinking about various things. But you should not force them out. You should just let it flow into and then you will notice that they will slowly fade away one by one.




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