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I am sure your wedding day with your Asian wife was beautiful! And maybe honey moon was even more amazing! You have entered a new chapter of your life as a married man. Sooner or later, you will need to talk to your new wife about raising the baby.
For example, if your wife is from China, then each big festival like Spring Festival and Mid-autumn day, your parents in law will be most likely bring up the questions about having a baby. I understand it's not common at all in the West, but trust me; it's very common in the east. Then when you go home and you want to ask your wife opinions about it. But in my opinion, your wife will simply just agree with her mom's idea.
Always hold your peace. This is always very important. I understand you know a lot while you are dating your Asian girlfriend. But when you are married to her, then you are actually entering her family. So no need to be panic or angry, always hold your peace.
What is the advantage of your children? The children of you and your Asian wife are often pretty good looking and beautiful. As he or she inherits the great feature from you both. Actually in the entertainment industry in Asia, you can see mixed race young people are making fairly great salary.
Talk to your wife about the language learning. Your children are likely to have a natural advantage of the language. Say, if your wife is Chinese and you are from UK, then your children can learn Chinese and English at the very early stage. It's a good idea to get your child to be bi-lingual. It's good for your children's future.
Should you your or your Asian wife teach the kid language? Actually this is the first major question after your kid was born. You and your Asian wife apparently speak different language. Although in most cases your wife will be more likely to let you teach the kid language. You should always respect your Asian wife's opinion about it. The better option will be your kid should be educated in the bi-lingual environment. It will give him or her some advantage in the long term.
How to deal with culture different with your Asian wife? You might be get used to culture difference when you were dating your Asian wife, but after the kid was born, more culture issue is coming! Here is the simple one: should the kid go to study at international school or local school? The bigger question is like tradition or value. Make sure to talk to your wife time to time
You don't want to show lots of disagreement in front of your kids. So make sure you are on the same page in advance for some issues.
For example, if your wife is from China, then each big festival like Spring Festival and Mid-autumn day, your parents in law will be most likely bring up the questions about having a baby. I understand it's not common at all in the West, but trust me; it's very common in the east. Then when you go home and you want to ask your wife opinions about it. But in my opinion, your wife will simply just agree with her mom's idea.
Always hold your peace. This is always very important. I understand you know a lot while you are dating your Asian girlfriend. But when you are married to her, then you are actually entering her family. So no need to be panic or angry, always hold your peace.
What is the advantage of your children? The children of you and your Asian wife are often pretty good looking and beautiful. As he or she inherits the great feature from you both. Actually in the entertainment industry in Asia, you can see mixed race young people are making fairly great salary.
Talk to your wife about the language learning. Your children are likely to have a natural advantage of the language. Say, if your wife is Chinese and you are from UK, then your children can learn Chinese and English at the very early stage. It's a good idea to get your child to be bi-lingual. It's good for your children's future.
Should you your or your Asian wife teach the kid language? Actually this is the first major question after your kid was born. You and your Asian wife apparently speak different language. Although in most cases your wife will be more likely to let you teach the kid language. You should always respect your Asian wife's opinion about it. The better option will be your kid should be educated in the bi-lingual environment. It will give him or her some advantage in the long term.
How to deal with culture different with your Asian wife? You might be get used to culture difference when you were dating your Asian wife, but after the kid was born, more culture issue is coming! Here is the simple one: should the kid go to study at international school or local school? The bigger question is like tradition or value. Make sure to talk to your wife time to time
You don't want to show lots of disagreement in front of your kids. So make sure you are on the same page in advance for some issues.
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